It was both!

It was all fine,
everything was perfect.
The hug and the air,
the talk and the strawberries.

and then, it went wrong,
without a notice.
It fell apart,
and there was discomfort.

Moments changed,
the right and wrong.
Swinging back and forth.
and I did too.

Was it a response,
or was it initiated.
Or was it both.